第三课 3、 When a conflict occurs 3当冲突发生 1.The Conflict on the Campus校园里的冲突 (1) Campus life is full of joy, but there are also some conflicts. 校园生活充满快乐,但也会出现一些冲突。 (2) When checking the hygiene, Zhang Ling found that Wang Xiao was in charge of the area with scraps of paper, and accused Wang Xiao of not working seriously. 检查卫生时,张灵发现王晓负责的区域还有纸屑,就指责王晓工作不认真。 (3) Wang Xiao believes that the paper scraps are brought over when others clean the aisle. The two men quarreled over it. 王晓却认为,纸屑是别人打扫过道时带过来的。两个人为此吵了起来。 (4) In the library, Chen Fei and Li Yong tore as they scramble for a comic book. 在图书馆里,陈飞与李勇在争抢一本漫画书时,把书撕破了。 (5) On the playground, because Wang Qiang ran too fast, a foot broke Zhang Feng's top, the two people fought for this. 在操场上,由于王强奔跑过快,一脚踩坏了章峰的陀螺,两个人为此打了起来。 (6) Remember, you know what other conflicts will happen in campus life? 回忆一下,你知道在校园生活中还会发生哪些冲突呢? 2.There are various kinds of conflicts around us. 在我们的身边存在着各种各样的冲突。 Only when the cause of the conflict is correctly recognized can the better solution of the conflict be achieved. 只有正确认识产生冲突的原因,才能更好地解决冲突。 1. Hurry to the toilet and hold it back. 赶紧上厕所,憋坏了。 2. Finally under the PE class, thirst died of me. 终于下体育课了,渴死我了。 3. You didn't see me! 是你没看到我啊! 4. Do you still want to run? Apologies to me! 你还想跑?快给我道歉! 5. What caused the conflict? 是什么原因导致了冲突的发生呢? Why did this conflict happen? 这个冲突为什么会发生呢? 1、Do not follow the rules for getting up and down the stairs. 不遵守上下楼梯的规则。 Causes of the conflict on campus 在校园中引发冲突的原因 Also available are: 还有: 3.Whether conflicts can avoid often depends on the way we deal with conflicts in different ways and different results. 能否避免发生冲突,往往取决于我们处理矛盾的方式,方式不同,结果也就不同。 1. In the reading room, everyone was reading quietly. 阅览室里,大家都在安静地看书。 2. Liu Qiang and Li Wen are chatting, the voice of whispering disturb the surrounding students. 刘强和李雯却在聊天,窃窃私语的声音打扰到周围的同学。 3. After a while, they secretly eat snacks, the room full of books mixed into the smell of onion oil, really let a person uncomfortable! 过了一会儿,他俩又偷偷地吃零食,满室的书香混进了葱油的气味,真让人难受! 4. Enstand忍受 5. Another endure, they are almost over! 再忍一忍,他们快结束了吧! 6. Good advice真诚劝告 7. Please do not eat in the reading room. 请不要在阅览室里吃东西。 8. Accaim指责 9. How can I eat something right here! 怎么能在这里吃东西! What are the three ways to solve conflicts? 三种解决矛盾的方法分别会带来怎样的结果? (1) The resulting result is: 忍受的结果是: (2) The result of the accusation is: 指责的结果是: (3) The result of the sincere advice is: 真诚劝告的结果是: What way do you think can both avoid conflict and keep yourself wronged? 你觉得哪种做法既能避免冲突,又不让自己受委屈呢? It is not terrible to produce a conflict. Using the right way, you can resolve the conflict very well. 产生冲突并不可怕,采用正确的方法,可以很好地化解冲突。 1. controls your emotions and stays calm控制情绪,保持冷静 1. In the self - study class, Wang Jingang was copying a text, and suddenly felt that the book padded under his left arm was suddenly drawn.The book under the left arm was jerout. 自习课上静悄悄,王金刚正在抄写一段课文,忽然感 到左胳膊下垫着的本子被猛地一抽。 2. Because there was no preparedness, his right hand shook, the word was crooked. 因为丝毫没有防备,他的右手跟着一抖,字写歪了。 3. Wang Kong turned to his deskmate and glared at him …王金刚转向同桌,怒目而视·.... 4. What are you doing? 你干什么? 5. We all calm down and say well. 我们都冷静点,好好说。 2.Exchange views and and clear clear交换意见,讲清道理 1. Sorry, I didn't mean to do it, 对不起,我不是故意的 2. You crossed the line and wrinkled my book. 你越线了,还弄皱了我的本子。 3.Put yourself and understand others换位思考,理解他人 1. Originally, sitting on this side, it is easy to cross the line ah, sorry. 原来,坐在这一边,很容易越线呀,对不起。 2. I am also somewhat more careful. 我也更小心一些。 What are the good ways to deal with the conflict? 面对冲突有哪些好的处理方法呢? 4.Negotiating and and harmony商议办法,和谐相处 1. The boy apologized and promised to pay attention to him in the future. 男生道歉,保证以后注意。 2. The girl expressed her understanding. 女生表示谅解。 3. Sorry, but I didn't pay attention to it. 对不起,是我没注意。 4. Not all blame you either, let's think of a way not to interfere with each other. 也不全怪你,我们一起想个互不干扰的办法吧。 5.Please mediate mediation resolve resolve conflicts请人调解,解决冲突 When the parties to the conflict are unable to solve the problem themselves, ask ——`——`—— and others to help with the mediation. 当冲突双方无法自己解决问题时,可以请——`——`——等人来帮助调解。 Do you have anything else to do with it? 你还有什么别的处理办法吗? What other conflicts have you not been resolved?你还有哪些冲突没有解决? Try solving out. 试着解决一下。 I clashed with classmate —— and the story was我和——同学发生了冲突,事情的经过是—————————————————————— —————— I intend to resolve this conflict so我打算这样来解决这个冲突————————————— What to encounter bullying遇到欺负怎么办 1) In life, we will not only encounter some contradictions and friction, but also may be bullied by others. 在生活中,我们不仅会遇到一些矛盾和摩擦,也可能会遇到被他人欺负的情况。 2) 知心姐姐: 3) My surname, Mao, is an ordinary girl. 我姓毛,是一个普普通通的女生。 4) Some classmates always laugh at me with my name, call me caterpillar, fault · · · · · · · some call unbearable. 有同学总是拿我的名字嘲笑我,叫我毛毛虫、毛病······有的叫法不堪入耳。 5) I asked them why they made fun of me, but they replied, "I want to call it!"我问他们为什么要取笑我,他们却回答:“就愿意这样叫!” 6) Now, but I did not know how to refute them. 这下,反倒是我不知该怎样反驳他们了。 7) I ' m really so distressed! 我真是太苦恼了! 8) Sister bosom, please help me! 知心姐姐,请你帮帮我! 9) A distressed girl, Mao Jingyuan一个苦恼的女生 毛静媛 10) 4 May 2016 2016年5月4日 Think about it, if there is this kind of bullying in his class. 想一想,自己班里有没有这类欺负行为。 Tips 小贴士 Bulbullying in school include: 学校里发生的欺负行为主要有: 1. intentionally hit, pushed, bumped, and kicked his classmates. 1.故意打、推、撞、踢同学。 2. abused, teased, and satirized his classmates. 2.辱骂、取笑、讽刺同学。 3. gave his classmates insulting nicknames. 3.给同学起侮辱性的外号。 4. plays tricks on classmates, intentionally damaging others's belongings. 4.捉弄同学,故意损坏他人物品。 5. dials right and wrong and squeezes and forces his classmates. 5.挑拨是非,排挤同学。 6. spreads others ' privacy. 6.散播他人隐私。 …… Being bullied is painful, and if we do not resist, the bullying may get worse, and the pain will intensify. 被人欺负是痛苦的,如果我们不抵抗,欺负可能变本加厉,痛苦也会加剧。 1. During recess, Mei Huan deliberately touched Wang Ling's stationery box on the ground, the stationery in the box scattered on the ground. 课间,美欢故意把王玲的文具盒碰到了地上,盒里的文具撒了一地。 2. Wang Ling sadly picked up the broken pen and Meihuan theory, but MeiHuanhuan refused to admit her mistake. 王玲伤心地捡起被摔坏的笔与美欢理论,可美欢却不肯认错。 3. You broke my pen. 你把我的笔摔坏了。 4. Hey, you see how stingy she is! 嘿,大家看她有多小气啊! 5. Wang Ling did not want to pester with him, turned to go, who knows Meihuan stopped the way did not let her go, other students also followed the coax. 王玲不想再跟他纠缠,转身要走,谁知美欢却挡住去路不让她走,其他同学也跟着起哄。 6. Please say something about Wang Ling's inner feelings at this time. 请你说说王玲这时的内心感受。 One performance演一演 1. If you were Wang Ling, what would you do? 1.假如你是王玲,你会怎样做呢? 1) Reasonable: I must tell things clearly to Mei Huanhuan and other students. 讲道理:一定向美欢和其他同学把事情讲清楚。 2) Reflect to the parents: to both parents to say clearly the context of things. 向家长反映:向双方家长说清楚事情的来龙去脉。 3) Please ask classmates or collective help: find good friends to help. 请同学或集体帮忙:找好朋友帮忙。 4) Please coordinate: find the teacher to host justice. 请他人协调:找老师主持公道。 2. If you see Wang Ling happened, what do you do? 2.假如你看到了王玲的遭遇,你会怎样做呢? Practice做法 My Choice 我的选择 1. Stand together with the bullied classmates and say "no" to the bullying behavior. 跟被欺负的同学站在一起,对欺负行为说“不”。 2. Report to the teacher or parents and hope they will come to stop it. 向老师或家长报告,希望他们赶来制止。 3. Have nothing to do with me, quickly hide away. 跟我无关,赶紧躲开。 4. Applause, heckling, watching the fun. 鼓掌、起哄、看热闹。 5. What is your reason for this choice? 你这样选择的理由是什么呢? 1) When bullied in the school, please ask the students to host justice, or to the teacher在校内受到欺负可以请同学主持公道,也可以向老师 2) Request for protection. We have to take the right approach to the bullying. 请求保护。我们必须采取正确的方法来应对欺负。 3) When being bullied outside the school, you also need to take decisive measures to protect yourself. 在校外受到欺负时,也需要果断采取措施,保护自己。 Making Your Ideas出主意 1. Read the following story, please analyze how Zhang Ming did it to get off. 阅读下面的故事,请你分析一下,张明怎么做才能脱身。 2. What lessons should he learn? 他应该吸取哪些教训呢? 3. Time: Summer afternoon时间:夏日午后 4. Location: A remote path地点:偏僻的小路 5. People: Fourth grade students Zhang Ming and third or fourth grade senior students. 人物:四年级学生张明和三四个高年级学生。 6. Plot: The summer afternoon, the adults go to work. 剧情:夏日午后,大人们上班去了。 7. Zhang Ming listened at home to the outside, could not sleep. 张明一个人在家听着外面的知了叫,睡不着。 8. He thought, why don't I go out and buy a bottle of soda to drink! So, he took the money to go to the entrance of the village store to buy a bottle of soda, while drinking while shopping. 他想,我何不出去买瓶汽水喝!于是,他拿钱去村口的小卖部买了瓶汽水,边喝边逛。 9. Unconsciously the sun slanting west, he was far from home. 不知不觉太阳西斜,他已经离家很远了。 10. 这时,在一条僻静的小路上,他被三四个高年级学生堵住了。 11. At this time, on a secluded path, he was blocked by a third or four seniors. 其中一个冲着他喊:“嘿,有钱吗?” 12. Zhang Ming said: "No."张明说:“没有。” 13. Another boy eyed his companion and said, " Search him! "……另一个男孩对同伴一使眼色,说:“搜他!"…… Tips 小贴士 When we were bullied outside the school当我们在校外受到欺负时 1) Keep calm, and do not be afraid. 要保持冷静,不要害怕。 2) Observe the surroundings and find ways to escape. 观察周围的环境,寻找脱身的方法。 3) For help to passing adults or residents nearby. 向路过的大人或附近的居民求助。 4) You can compromise first, but remember the other party's characteristics, so as to call the police afterwards. 可以先妥协,但要记住对方的特征,以便事后报警。 While we learn to protect ourselves, we also need to learn to get rid of our trouble in a reasonable way. 我们在学会保护自己的同时,也需要学会用合理的方式摆脱烦恼。 1. He was in sixth grade and we met while playing. 他上六年级,我们是在打球的时候认识的。 2. The first time he asked me for five yuan and promised to return me, I gave it, but then he not only did not return, but also kept asking me for money. 第一次他向我要了五元钱,答应还我,I gave it, but later he not only did not return it, but also kept asking me for money. 我就给了,可Later, he not only did not return it, but also kept asking me for money. 后来他不仅没还,还不断跟我要钱。 3. Every time I paid him back the money, he raised his fist to beat me. 我每次让他还钱,他就扬起拳头要揍我。 4. Always go on like this, my pocket money should soon be gone. 总这样下去,我的零花钱很快就该没有了。 5. What good way do you have to get out of a bully? 你有什么好方法帮被欺负者摆脱烦恼呢? 1) Students——同学 2) Hello! 你好! 3) I have some advice for your troubles and hope to help you. 对于你的烦恼我有一些建议,希望能够帮助你。 4) First, recognize that the idea of fear of revenge is wrong. 首先,要认识到害怕报复的想法是错误的。 5) Secondly, the其次,————————————— 6) Your classmate - 你的同学———— 知识窗 1. The Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention of Juvenile Crime clearly stipulates that minors shall not have a " fight or abuse others; 《中华人民共和国预防未成年人犯罪法》明确规定,未成年人不得有“打架斗殴、辱骂他人; 2. Forced to ask for property from others "and other bad behavior, shall not have" correct others to cause trouble, disturb the public security; 强行向他人索要财物”等不良行为,不得有“纠集他人结伙滋事,扰乱治安; 3. Repeated intercept and beat others or forcibly ask for other people's property " and other serious bad behavior. 多次拦截殴打他人或者强行索要他人财物”等严重不良行为。 Unit 2 4 Learning of Buying things 买东西的学问 |
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