2. 学会沟通交流 2.Learn to communicate 我们生活在班级、学校、社区中,希望自己得到他人和群体的认同与接纳。 We
live in classes, schools, and communities and want to be recognized and
accepted by others and groups. 但是,不同的成长环境使人们在行为习惯、生活方式、看待问题的立场等方面存在一定的差异,对某些问题可能有不同的看法。 However, different upbringing makes people
have certain differences in their behaviors, lifestyles, and positions on
issues, and they may have different views on certain issues. 活动园 Activity Park 年级篮球联赛上,五(3)班输掉了比赛。 In
the grade basketball league, five (3) classes lost the game. 班上几个同学放学后说起了各自的看法. Several students in the class talked about
their opinions after school. 我们明明没有犯规,裁判却吹我们犯规。 We
obviously didn't commit any fouls, but the referees blew us out of the game. 我觉得输球是裁判不公造成的。 I think the loss was caused by the unfairness
of the referees. 我们技不如人。 We're
not as good as the others. 如果我们技高一筹,投篮再准一些,也许比赛不会输。 If we had been more skilled and shot better,
maybe we wouldn't have lost the game. 针对同一场篮球赛,同班同学的看法为什么不一致呢? 作为观众,我觉得咱们班的配合不好,球员拿到球只想着自己投篮。 As a
spectator, I think our class is not cooperating well, and the players only
think about shooting the ball themselves when they get the ball. 有不同看法时,只坚持自己的观点而不考虑他人,就容易产生矛盾或冲突。 When
there is a difference of opinion, it is easy to create conflicts or
contradictions by only insisting on our own views without considering others. 理性对待分歧,会让我们有合情合理的看法和思考。 Treating differences rationally will allow us
to have sensible and reasonable views and thinking. 活动园 Activity Park 梁毅和吴云飞是好朋友,周末经常一起下象棋。有一次,发生了下面一幕。 Liang Yi and Wu Yunfei were good friends and often
played chess together on weekends. One time, the following scene happened. 下棋就是娱乐,你总是想来想去,磨磨蹭增,耽误时间。 Playing chess is entertainment, you always think about
it, dawdle and delay. 下棋就有输赢。,我只有走一步想三步,才能赢棋呀! When you play chess, you win or lose. I can only win
if I make one move and think of three moves! 假如你是梁毅或吴云飞,请依照下面的问题深入思考。 If you are Liang Yi or Wu Yunfei, please think deeply
according to the following questions. 你会对这种分歧采取什么样的态度? What would be your attitude toward this disagreement? 你的态度对朋友关系会产生什么影响? What effect does your attitude have on friendships? 你的态度对自已的棋艺会产生什么影响? What effect does your attitude have on your own chess
game? 你的态度对自己的心情会产生什么样的影响? What effect does your attitude have on your mood? 真诚坦率很重要 Sincerity and frankness are important. 对于不同看法,采取“简单拒绝”或“一味接受”的态度都 不利于问题的解决。 The attitude of "simply rejecting" or
"just accepting" different views is not conducive to solving
problems. It is not conducive to the resolution of problems. 真诫坦率的沟通可以有效地化解矛盾,促进和谐。 Honest and
frank communication can effectively resolve conflicts and promote harmony. 活动园 Activity
Park 学校马上就要召开秋季运动会了。 The school is going to hold the autumn sports meeting
soon. 王老师说我们进入高年级了,这次运动会开幕式的班级展示就由我们自己决定。 Mr. Wang said
that we had entered the senior class, and the class display for the opening
ceremony of this sports meeting would be decided by ourselves. 在入场式服装问题上,有的同学提出不穿校服,因为全校都一样,无法突出班级的特点; On the issue of the entrance ceremony costume, some
students proposed not to wear the school uniform because the whole school is
the same and cannot highlight the characteristics of the class; 有的同学认为,运动会不同于艺术节,整齐最重要 some students
thought that the field day is different from the art festival, neatness is the
most important. 当与同学意见不同时,你通常的想法、做法是什么? When you disagree with your classmates, what do you
usually think and do? 换位三部曲 Three parts of transposition 稳定情绪 Stabilize emotions 观点不一致没关系,但各执己见容易引发矛盾。 It's okay to disagree, but each opinion can easily
lead to conflicts. 冷静思考 Calm thinking 为什么他会有这样的想法呢? Why would he think this way? 寻找合理点 Finding a reasonable point 站在他的角度看,觉得他的看法也有道理。 Put yourself in his shoes and think he has a valid
point. 在“换位三部曲”的引导下,现在你想出的解决方法是什么? What is the solution you have come up with now, guided
by the "three steps of transposition"? 可能有怎样的结果? What are the possible outcomes? 真诚的交流需要尊重他人表达自己观点的权利。对待不同的看,我们可以不赞同,但是,要让他人自由而完整地表达,这样有于我们了解他人的意见。 Sincere
communication requires respect for the right of others to express their views.
We can disagree with different views, but it is important to allow others to
express themselves freely and completely so that we can understand their
opinions. 活动园 Activity Park 面对不同的数学解题方法,班里的同学说法不一。 When faced with different math problem solving
methods, the class had different statements. 何大海的解法好。我也有自己的解法,不过没他的好,我还是不说了吧 He Dahai's solution is good. I also have my own
solution, but not as good as his, I'd better not say it. 我不清楚苏长河为什么打断我的讲述,我觉得自己的解 法也不错。 I'm not sure why Su Changhe interrupted my narrative,
and I think my solution The method is also good. 我这样做是最简便的。 It's easiest for me to do this. 我是数学课代表,大家都应该听我的 I'm the math class rep. Everyone should listen to me. 课代表凭什么说自己的解法最简便, Who is the class rep to say that his solution is the
easiest? 别以为自己成绩好就了不起。 Don't think you
are great because you get good grades. 身处这样的场景,你会如何表达自己的意见呢? In such a scenario, how would you express your
opinion? 问题 problem 不敢表达 Dare not express 我的想法有可能在他人眼中是幼稚的、可笑的。 There is a possibility that my thoughts are childish
and ridiculous in the eyes of others. 我不敢表达真实的想法。 I am afraid to
express what I really think. 解决办法 Solutions 克服这种担忧,增强自信心,勇于表达自己的真实想法。 Overcome this worry, increase your self-confidence and
be brave enough to express your true thoughts. 表达不清 Poorly expressed 我的真实想法是“这样的”,但是,表达出来的意思就变成“那样的” My real thought is "this way", but the
expression becomes "that way". 解决办法 Solutions 养成写下自己想法的习惯,并且不断练习,提高表达能力。 Get into the habit of writing down your thoughts and
keep practicing them to improve your expression skills. 角度不同 Different angles 我和他人所站的角度不同,看法会有所不同。 My perspective will be different from that of others. 解决办法 Solutions 要知道这种情况难以避免,要学会接受不同人对同一事物看法的差异。 It is important to know that this is difficult to
avoid and to learn to accept differences in the way different people see the
same thing. 交流中产生分歧时,我们可以坦诚地向对方提出意见,平和 冷静、友好地与对方交流。 When differences arise in communication, we can give
our opinions to each other frankly, and communicate with each other calmly。 这样我们才能在解决问题的过程中获得成长,收获友谊。 We can communicate with each other calmly and
amicably. In this way we can grow and gain friendship in the process of solving
problems. 活动园 Activity Park 遇到学习难题的王小雨发现同学分析问题的思路与自己不同,自己又不理解别人的思路。 Wang Xiaoyu, who encountered a learning problem, found
that her classmates analyzed the problem differently from herself, and she did
not understand others' thinking. 在请教同学时,她遇到了不同的态度。 She encountered different attitudes when asking her
classmates for advice. 态度1 这么简单的问题你都没弄懂?我的答案是对的,我没时间给你讲了,拿我的答案看吧。 Attitude 1 You didn't even understand such a simple problem? My
answer is right, I don't have time to give you a lecture, take my answer and
read it. 态度2 你的思路确实与我的不同,我给你讲一遍我的思路,如果不 懂可以再问我。 Attitude 2 Your thinking is really different from mine, I'll tell
you my thinking once, if you don't understand you can ask me again. 态度3 我..... Attitude 3 I ..... 要求别人与自己保持一致,可能的后果是什么? What are the possible consequences of asking others to
be consistent with you? 假如王小雨向你请教,你会采取什么态度? If Wang Xiaoyu asked you for advice, what attitude
would you take? 在交流中,如果总是试图改变他人,会给自己和他人制造许多烦恼。 In communication, if you always try to change others,
you will create a lot of troubles for yourself and others. 如果总是抱怨他人不合作,却从未想过他人持不同意见的原因,就难以进行正常的交往。 If you always complain that others are uncooperative,
but never think about the reasons why they disagree, it is difficult to have a
normal relationship. 尊重他人与自己的不同,也是尊重自己。 Respecting others who are different from yourself is
also respecting yourself. 与人沟通讲方法 Communicate with people about the method 与人沟通,要勇于表达自己的意见,沉默不语可能失去沟通的机会。 Communication with people, to express their opinions,
silence may lose the opportunity to communicate. 双方只有在准确表达自己意见并了解对方意见的基础上,才可能进一步沟通。 Both sides can
only communicate further if they express their opinions accurately and
understand each other's opinions. 活动园 Activity Park 学一学假如你和朋友约好一起去博物馆,他却临时说有事不能来。对此你可能会有如下表达。 Let's learn if you and your friend are supposed to go
to a museum together, but he says he can't come at the last minute. You may
have the following expressions for this. 表达句式 Expressions 以“我”为主语的句式 Sentences with "I" as the subject 以“你”为主语的句式 Sentences with "you" as the subject 可能的表达 Possible expressions 我有点失望! I am a little disappointed! 你真不守信! You don't keep your word! 可能的结果 Possible results 允许对方解释并使友谊不受伤害 Allow each other to explain and keep the friendship
intact 两人争吵起来 Two people quarrel 试一试假如你和体育委员钱小明因为运动会项目报名的事发生争吵, Try it out if you and Qian Xiaoming, a sports
committee member, had an argument about signing up for a sports event。 本来你的强项是短跑,他却让你报跳远。 Originally your strength was sprinting, but he told
you to sign up for long jump. 你会怎么跟钱小明说?参考上面表格,完成下列活动。 What would you
say to Qian Xiaoming? Referring to the table above, complete the following
activities. “我”句式 "I" sentence pattern 可能的表达 Possible expressions 可能的结果 probability “你”句式 "You" sentence pattern 可能的表达 Possible expressions 可能的结果 probability 表达有方法 There is a way to express it 每个人都有发表自己意见的权利,表达时要自信。 Everyone has the right to express their opinions, and
they should be confident in expressing them. 说话前做好准备,明确观点,充分说理。 Be prepared before you speak, clear your point of
view, and fully reason. 表达是为了让对方能理解和接受自己的意见。说话要态度诚诚,语气平和,音量适中,有理有据,可以适当辅以手势。 Expression is to make the other party understand and
accept their own opinions. Speak with sincerity, calm tone, moderate volume and
reasonable evidence, and can be supplemented with gestures appropriately. 与人沟通,还要学会倾听。这样做既是良好修养的体现,也能让我们准确理解和领会对方的想法和目的。 To communicate with others, we should also learn to
listen. This is not only the embodiment of good culture, but also allows us to
accurately understand and understand each other's ideas and goals. 活动园 Activity Park 生活中与别人主动沟通时,我们可能会遇到对方的下列反应,同时自己的理也会受到影响。 When we actively communicate with others in our life,
we may encounter the following reactions from each other, and at the same time,
our own reasoning will be affected. 他左顾右盼,向窗外张望,是不是不想听我再说了? He looked around and looked out of the window. Didn't
he want to hear more from me? 他面无表情,对我说的话既不肯定也不否定,我感到很无趣。 He had no expression on his face. He neither affirmed
nor denied what I said, which made me feel very boring. 他总是打断我的话,我都不想接着说了。 He always interrupts me. I don't want to go on. 对方的反应及其对我的影响。 The other person's reaction and its influence on me. 你是否遇到过类似的困惑?请根据自己的经验来补充。 Have you ever encountered a similar confusion? Please
add according to your own experience. 倾听要耐心 Listen patiently 身体前倾,目光专注。 Lean forward and focus. 边听边观察,从对方的表情、手势和语气中获取信息从对方的发言中把握关键内容,做好回应的准备。 Listen and observe, get information from the other
person's expression, gesture and tone, grasp the key content from the other
person's speech, and be ready to respond. 用点头等方式表示你的认同或礼貌地提出自己的看法。 Show your approval by nodding, etc. or offer your
opinion politely. 与人沟通,即使未能达成共识,也不要互相指责。我们可以结合具体问题进行讨论,给对方充分解释的机会。 When communicating with others, even if they fail to
reach a consensus, don't blame each other. We can discuss specific issues and
give each other a chance to fully explain. 活动园 Activity Park 班会上,同学们围绕“沟通交流与我们的同学关系”的话题,发表了自己的看法。 At the class meeting, the students expressed their
views on the topic of "communication and the relationship between our
classmates". 同学之间有分歧时,如果我是对的,我就要当着大家的面指出别人的错误。 When there are differences among students, if I am
right, I will point out others' mistakes in front of everyone. 同学犯了错,我不会当着全班同学的面指责他,毕竟人人都有自尊心。 Students made a mistake, I will not blame him in front
of the whole class, after all, everyone has self-esteem. 如果你总是当着大家的面指责我,我们肯定做不了好朋友。 If you always criticize me in front of everyone, we
can't be good friends. 沟通交流与我们的同学关系 Communication with our classmates 你和同学沟通后,如果意见仍然为达成一致,你会如何处理。 After you communicate with your classmates, if you
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